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    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Love in Black and White]]></title>
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    <updated>2020-07-28T22:22:00-04:00</updated>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[With all this focus on America’s racial problems, let’s look at the bigotry directed toward interracial relationships.<br><img src="https://cdn2.poz.com/96534_Love-Black-White.png_9178bda5-abbf-4c1c-876c-64dbff82deaa.png" />]]></content>
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    <title type="html"><![CDATA[The PRIDE of Black Lives Matter]]></title>
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    <updated>2020-06-29T16:43:00-04:00</updated>
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      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[A look at how BLM has created a sense of unity within the LGBTQ community<br><img src="https://cdn2.poz.com/95447_Hands-united.png_3e00fede-acd1-4a98-b8af-86964a94bca3.png" />]]></content>
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    <title type="html"><![CDATA[How to Be a White Ally]]></title>
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    <updated>2020-06-15T16:34:00-04:00</updated>
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      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Five recommendations by Aundaray Guess, a self-described “gay, black, tall, shaved-head man living with HIV.”<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/94676_BLM-allies.jpg_a24bb17a-6531-447f-addf-2e47b847ddab.jpeg" />]]></content>
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    <title type="html"><![CDATA[So Tired]]></title>
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    <updated>2020-05-29T09:36:00-04:00</updated>
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      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[A list of those of color targeted by police because of their race<br><img src="https://cdn2.poz.com/93859_i-cant-breathe.jpeg_67d217de-03ed-46c6-9180-0dc75f2fd4ee.jpeg" />]]></content>
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    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Black HIV Unaware Day]]></title>
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    <updated>2020-02-07T13:58:00-05:00</updated>
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      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[On National Black HIV/AIDS Awareness Day, let’s not forget that older adults of color are at risk too.<br><img src="https://cdn.poz.com/86740_man-thinking-iStock-875961070.jpg_9439a620-d415-42a7-be83-7722348731e4.jpeg" />]]></content>
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  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Taking a Step Back]]></title>
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    <updated>2019-11-15T16:48:00-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[A realization that I needed to incorporate self-care to be healthy once again.<br><img src="https://cdn.poz.com/82539_Self-Care.jpg_aebeac4b-c77d-462d-971b-1fb0ff143144.jpeg" />]]></content>
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  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[5 Tips for Seniors Who Discover They Have HIV]]></title>
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    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/5-ways-accept-new-hiv-status-senior</id>
    <updated>2019-07-19T15:42:00-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[17% of new diagnoses are among those 50 and older. Aundaray Guess offers needed advice to this population.<br><img src="https://cdn.poz.com/75617_hold-hands-elderly-iStock-000009774358-Double.jpg_6a223fab-6207-4f86-9030-d91b557133d0.jpeg" />]]></content>
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    <title type="html"><![CDATA[5 Reasons Why I Don’t Celebrate Pride]]></title>
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    <updated>2019-06-14T17:01:00-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[I’m a gay Black man who used to enjoy the June festivities. But guess what, my Pride is not a Christmas tree.<br><img src="https://cdn.poz.com/73846_Why-I-dont-celebrate-pride.png_8267ba9b-731f-40f6-9476-efe136d1439f.png" />]]></content>
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    <title type="html"><![CDATA[The Pressure of HIV]]></title>
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    <updated>2019-06-05T11:57:00-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[A recent diagnosis of high blood pressure shows how important it is to know your family’s health history.<br><img src="https://cdn2.poz.com/73039_High-Blood-Pressure.jpg_b4e2bc63-e60a-48a2-9b3f-b44b6d297d27.jpeg" />]]></content>
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    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Why Jussie's Lies Matter]]></title>
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    <updated>2019-02-21T17:49:00-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[The actor owes an apology to a lot of people—including me, a gay Black man.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/66269_Jussie.jpg_2746969f-4f54-4650-8447-e4eca312bc3a.jpeg" />]]></content>
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    <title type="html"><![CDATA[5 Things an HIV-Negative Person Needs to Know When Dating a Positive Person]]></title>
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    <updated>2019-01-10T17:00:00-05:00</updated>
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      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Advice from someone with HIV who’s been in a serodiscordant relationship for 21 years<br><img src="https://cdn2.poz.com/63659_positive-negtive-edited.jpg_7830533f-8352-499c-9997-4c0d0658f9a3.jpeg" />]]></content>
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    <title type="html"><![CDATA[My Not So Happy Holiday]]></title>
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    <updated>2018-12-17T15:00:00-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[A lesson that adherence to HIV medication is a reality, even for long-term survivors<br><img src="https://cdn2.poz.com/62507_HIV-holiday.jpg_e6c2ad18-591e-4791-bedb-36659759ef1d.jpeg" />]]></content>
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  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Conversation With My Doctor]]></title>
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    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/conversation-doctor</id>
    <updated>2018-11-16T16:21:00-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Having a conversation with my doctor about race and racism showed his ability to factor both into my entire care.<br><img src="https://cdn3.poz.com/60676_Conversation.jpg_899f570f-6e03-4285-aff1-5df5f64c7e94.jpeg" />]]></content>
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    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Why I Didn't Tell]]></title>
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    <updated>2018-10-05T16:35:00-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[With the recent conversation on sexual abuse, an awareness of why I didn't disclose my own abuse as a child.<br><img src="https://cdn2.poz.com/58258_Child-abuse.jpg_ee57bba0-9efd-4c5f-bba2-9743baf9736e.jpeg" />]]></content>
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  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[#LivingwithHIVwhileBlack]]></title>
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    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/livingwithhivwhileblack</id>
    <updated>2018-08-27T15:26:00-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[In this racially charged environment, how does one find value in managing HIV care?<br><img src="https://cdn3.poz.com/55636_92915180-640x640.jpg_3d12fece-43c8-4357-95eb-34c965cac2f5.jpeg" />]]></content>
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  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Looking for Dick]]></title>
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    <updated>2018-07-10T16:52:00-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[How a search for sexual meaning helped me find my true self.<br><img src="https://cdn2.poz.com/53259_Looking.jpg_c27f72b1-b43e-4048-a8cc-19ff3f175793.jpeg" />]]></content>
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    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Coming Out of the Dark: HIV and Trauma]]></title>
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    <updated>2018-06-04T17:00:00-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[How I learned to escape the shadow of trauma and post-traumatic stress disorder<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/51175_Coming-out.jpg_2bb6c277-61e1-4548-b837-ccb8193a8b43.jpeg" />]]></content>
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    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Meet the Woman Who Opened Her Arms and Saved My Life]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/womans-work"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/womans-work</id>
    <updated>2018-03-02T17:08:00-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[As we celebrate Women’s History Month, I look back on the first person to hear me say, “I have HIV.”<br><img src="https://cdn3.poz.com/46104_21765079-10155607069850102-4366507389490722864-n.jpg_f1de3177-ccfd-45f5-9f48-00959eef161f.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Getting Naked]]></title>
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    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/getting-naked</id>
    <updated>2018-02-06T16:39:00-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[As I prepared for my one-man show, it led me to unveil who I was as a gay black man.<br><img src="https://cdn3.poz.com/44708_Naked.png_d65949d6-051f-4848-bd2c-821dc704bad5.png" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Reclaiming My Time From These Types of People]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/reclaiming-time"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/reclaiming-time</id>
    <updated>2018-01-19T16:00:00-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[If my truth pushes people away, it’ll simply give me more room to twirl!<br><img src="https://cdn.poz.com/43826_Eternal-clock.jpg_4761d6a3-914d-4f15-807f-ccd3a9759ca9.jpeg" />]]></content>
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  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[My Last World AIDS Day]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/last-world-aids-day"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/last-world-aids-day</id>
    <updated>2017-12-08T17:10:00-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Five reasons I no longer recognize World AIDS Day.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/41878_Boycotting.jpg_50a7d7fa-0132-437b-8f32-65a48ef55c41.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Opening Wide]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/opening-wide"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/opening-wide</id>
    <updated>2017-11-16T12:13:00-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[My fear of the dentist was setting me up for a future of teeth loss.<br><img src="https://cdn2.poz.com/40395_Dental-Fear.jpg_34e4405f-ad44-4708-998a-2fd4b0ddc71f.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Laughing at My Status]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/laughing-status"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/laughing-status</id>
    <updated>2017-09-27T17:11:00-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Finding humor can help you live with HIV.<br><img src="https://cdn.poz.com/37228_Humor.jpg_f7974814-5db9-47b1-9d5b-ae7948079a6a.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[6 Mistakes Most Newly HIV Diagnosed People Make]]></title>
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    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/6mistakesImade</id>
    <updated>2017-08-04T17:01:00-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Or at least, the mistakes I made when I first learned of my status. But I bet many of you will relate.<br><img src="https://cdn3.poz.com/34271_Mistakes.jpg_f7f57137-cd74-40a2-b32d-2f1be9244d64.jpeg" />]]></content>
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  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Does My HIV Make Me Look Fat?]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/hiv-make-look-fat"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/hiv-make-look-fat</id>
    <updated>2017-07-06T16:37:00-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[When someone asks if I've gained weight, it brings old issues of body image disorder back into my life.<br><img src="https://cdn3.poz.com/33050_Man-on-Scale.jpg_63d08479-0994-470c-a6da-83fd27e7a70e.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Still Here! Advocating for Senior HIV Health]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/still-advocating-senior-hiv-health"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/still-advocating-senior-hiv-health</id>
    <updated>2017-06-01T17:10:00-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[The last of a three-part series offers five ways seniors can advocate for their HIV health.<br><img src="https://cdn2.poz.com/30938_advocacy.png_81a930d2-3a2c-40ef-9859-9f2b7ed83818.png" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Still Here, Aging with HIV Part Two]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/still-aging-hiv-part-two"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/still-aging-hiv-part-two</id>
    <updated>2017-05-02T16:10:00-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[13 simple ways to help provide HIV prevention to seniors.<br><img src="https://cdn2.poz.com/29004_Senior-Care.jpg_731c4103-4f58-4eb3-b247-12c8633702e7.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Still Here, HIV and Aging, Part One]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/still-hiv-aging-part-one"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/still-hiv-aging-part-one</id>
    <updated>2017-04-03T16:46:00-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[A three part blog on HIV and Aging<br><img src="https://cdn2.poz.com/27877_HIV.jpg_47c0ae35-5adb-4fbc-8248-e80870a9f932.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Trumping Hate]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/trumping-hate"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/trumping-hate</id>
    <updated>2017-02-09T00:00:00-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Can the LGBT community come together to stand against our own hate?<br><img src="https://cdn.poz.com/25501_Trumping-Hate.jpg_907ab0b6-0792-465e-b1bb-d375833d70b8.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Kim Burrell Is My Mother]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/kim-burrell-mother"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/kim-burrell-mother</id>
    <updated>2017-01-05T00:00:00-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Kim Burrell's hate speech against gays highlights the current struggles black churches have with the LGBT community.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/24104_No-hate-button.jpg_52e48c89-af65-4a29-b701-c1519ddb1296.jpeg" />]]></content>
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  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Retiring With My HIV]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/retiringmyhiv"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/retiringmyhiv</id>
    <updated>2016-12-15T00:00:00-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[As we age with HIV are many of us ready to retire? And what does our financial future look like?<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/23345_meds-money-is-000012730477.jpg_7f8c6d7a-5fda-4d4b-a861-92adfee19a00.jpeg" />]]></content>
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  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Fighting My Way Up]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/fighting-way"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/fighting-way</id>
    <updated>2016-11-03T00:00:00-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[My recent good news reminded me how I used to struggle with adhering to my medication<br><img src="https://cdn.poz.com/21028_Ready-to-fight.png_a8e2e1b1-3dc4-4bdf-9fd8-7b797e1e6a54.png" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Finding Hope]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/finding-hope"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/finding-hope</id>
    <updated>2016-10-14T00:00:00-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[My life after losing two treasured pets.<br><img src="https://cdn.poz.com/20355_20160514-145929-1463252387200.jpg_68ee7e8b-0506-41b6-bd25-a3860075158d.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Do You Wear a Condom Grandpa?]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/wear-condom-grandpa"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/wear-condom-grandpa</id>
    <updated>2016-09-08T00:00:00-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[National HIV/AIDS and Aging Awareness Day is Sunday, Sept. 18. But I want to look at it through a specific lens.<br><img src="https://cdn3.poz.com/18942_hand-condom-ts-484102315.jpg_fc129750-b717-4ab9-b012-54f0ab245e5d.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[5 Ways to Stay Positive]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/5-ways-stay-positive"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/5-ways-stay-positive</id>
    <updated>2016-08-15T17:29:00-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[The 5 ways I've lived a healthy life living with HIV<br><img src="https://cdn3.poz.com/17768_is-150904-thumbs-up-approval-800x600.jpg_8c744c85-9caf-4d1f-93fa-74e39c028a87.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Writing My HIV]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/writing-hiv"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/writing-hiv</id>
    <updated>2016-07-24T00:00:00-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Living with HIV has helped me to craft words in order to understand and live with the disease.<br><img src="https://cdn.poz.com/17011_typewriter-801921-960-720.jpg_b3cf14f2-fc67-4f2f-9419-e0e5e9391fc9.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Faking My HIV]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/faking-hiv"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/faking-hiv</id>
    <updated>2016-06-27T17:30:00-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[As a long time survivor, I onced felt my longevity was based on a lie<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/58581_behind-a-mask-.jpg_ae1d98ec-3cf7-4e36-8ad9-d2d668ac9f5d.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[HIV Imposter]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/hiv-imposter"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/hiv-imposter</id>
    <updated>2016-06-27T00:00:00-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/15982_behind-a-mask-.jpg_4475fe86-2f3f-4752-86e7-e2adaa87f1a0.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Graduating Again ]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/graduating"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/graduating</id>
    <updated>2016-06-01T00:00:00-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Once again I graduated from college, but I’ve also graduated to a better HIV healthy lifestyle.<br><img src="https://cdn3.poz.com/14123_grad.jpg_6b53a750-5ae6-4a72-a5cb-1e971e1b5901.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Losing Hope]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/losing-hope"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/losing-hope</id>
    <updated>2016-01-25T00:00:00-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Losing a pet has such an impact as I've learned recently with the passing of my dogs.<br><img src="https://cdn.poz.com/5948_aundaray-guess-hope-parker.jpg_cf694aa8-c5d0-4f34-8d1c-b801205ebc44.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Checking In]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/checking-in"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/checking-in</id>
    <updated>2015-12-14T00:00:00-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[The relationship with your doctor shouldn't always be one where you're simply checking in with yes and no answers. <br><img src="https://cdn.poz.com/6242_aundaray-guess2016.jpg_777ba094-ce77-4bf3-93d5-c8972cfb7848.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Raw Sex]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/raw-sex"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/raw-sex</id>
    <updated>2015-10-23T00:00:00-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[The arrival of HIV was the cause of such a negative feeling and yet how should gay men feel when they prefer the feeling of raw sex?<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/41909_bed-iStock-000000037971-Medium.jpg_0802e86d-4371-4d9a-a0e4-24060d54755d.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[More Than AIDS]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/more-than-aids"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/more-than-aids</id>
    <updated>2015-09-24T00:00:00-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[For a while I was scared to admit I had AIDS and instead informed others I was HIV. <br><img src="https://cdn.poz.com/6245_aundaray-guess2016.jpg_5ccc10e0-2fef-48ef-99dc-0a60c7cedf10.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[The + and - of HIV Online Support]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/the-and---of-hiv-onl"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/the-and---of-hiv-onl</id>
    <updated>2015-08-17T00:00:00-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Online support and info for HIV is no different than the real world as one learns how to navigate and locate correct and supportive info. <br><img src="https://cdn.poz.com/6246_aundaray-guess2016.jpg_5abcdf55-55d5-4c15-b1f9-61f8a7f59ad1.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Domino Effect]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/domino-effect"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/domino-effect</id>
    <updated>2015-07-29T17:47:12-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Although much has been written about HIV resistance, the reality is once you develop a resistance, it starts a domino effect with your health....<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Maybe This Time]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/maybe-this-time"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/maybe-this-time</id>
    <updated>2015-06-30T17:26:31-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[With the passage of the right to marry for same-sex couples, is it now time to look once again at the impact HIV has in communities, especiall...<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Hurt/Hate/Heal]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/hurthateheal"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/hurthateheal</id>
    <updated>2015-05-06T17:20:02-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[My reflection on how I came to love the person I am living with HIV<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Spring Into Fitness]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/spring-into-fitness"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/spring-into-fitness</id>
    <updated>2015-04-07T16:54:13-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[That's the great thing about Spring- we all get a start over and an ability to design a realistic health program. A fitness program is great f...<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[The Specialty of HIV]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/the-specialty-of-hiv"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/the-specialty-of-hiv</id>
    <updated>2015-03-24T16:19:56-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[My battle of being forced into a specialty pharmacy program and the discriminate nature of it as it relates to HIV<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[The Ouchiness of HIV]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/the-ouchiness-of-hiv"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/the-ouchiness-of-hiv</id>
    <updated>2015-02-05T15:08:07-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[What are the words that make you go ouch when people reference your HIV status? I share my list of what people shouldn't say<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[6 Reasons to Swallow]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/6-reasons-to-swallow"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/6-reasons-to-swallow</id>
    <updated>2015-01-14T16:34:18-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Beginning a HIV regimen is not a easy choice and for those considering it I give the 6 best reasons to swallow<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[#HIVBlackLivesMatter Also]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/hivblacklivesmatter"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/hivblacklivesmatter</id>
    <updated>2014-12-22T15:42:52-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[A look at this current climate of race relations- and wondering does it have a connection to young black men as they navigate a life with HIV<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Re-Birthday]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/re-birthday"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/re-birthday</id>
    <updated>2014-10-07T16:58:37-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Embracing my 28th year of being HIV positive and celebrating my successes<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Those Were the Days]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/those-were-the-days"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/those-were-the-days</id>
    <updated>2014-09-03T11:07:06-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Looking back on the early days of HIV and from this era, a first wave of those living with the disease was born<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[His Story]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/his-story"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/his-story</id>
    <updated>2014-07-28T10:15:27-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Tony story spoke to the many long-term survivors of HIV, trying to find the strength to keep fighting<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[And the Band Stopped Playing]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/and-the-band-stopped"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/and-the-band-stopped</id>
    <updated>2014-07-15T13:20:02-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[A look at the recent loss of NYC HIV agencies funded to help gay people of color communities<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[The Graying of HIV]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/the-graying-of-hiv"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/the-graying-of-hiv</id>
    <updated>2014-07-02T11:52:18-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[HIV prevention fails to include gay elders as they have become invisible within the LGBT community<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Help Wanted: Unemployment and HIV]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/help-wanted-unemploy"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/help-wanted-unemploy</id>
    <updated>2014-05-20T07:23:05-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Facing unemployment and living with HIV can be difficult, but there is a way to endure<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Coming Back From Zero]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/coming-back-from-zer"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/coming-back-from-zer</id>
    <updated>2014-04-16T11:12:55-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[I learned a lesson about medication non-adherence when I realize my T-cells were close to zero<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Springing into Love]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/springing-into-love"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/springing-into-love</id>
    <updated>2014-04-01T11:56:11-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Tearing down the walls of fear and finding love with HIV<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Family Secret]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/family-secret"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/family-secret</id>
    <updated>2014-02-04T17:31:55-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Realizing the pain of not having a close family while living with HIV<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Life's Lesson With HIV]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/lifes-lesson-with-hi"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/lifes-lesson-with-hi</id>
    <updated>2014-01-21T17:02:04-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[As I enter another year I look at the 20 Lessons I've learned about having HIV<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Christmas Wish]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/christmas-wish"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/christmas-wish</id>
    <updated>2013-12-12T11:43:34-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[A HIV holiday wish to Santa<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Happy World AIDS Day]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/happy-world-aids-day"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/happy-world-aids-day</id>
    <updated>2013-12-03T00:00:00-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Is it ever appropriate to say Happy World AIDS Day?<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Learning to say No]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/learning-to-say-no"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/learning-to-say-no</id>
    <updated>2013-11-06T16:37:52-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Learning to say no to situations that didn't benefit me<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[What if...]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/what-if"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/what-if</id>
    <updated>2013-10-25T14:07:21-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[A look at when I let my self-doubts prevent me from living a full with HIV<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Remembering Aaron]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/remembering-aaron"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/remembering-aaron</id>
    <updated>2013-10-11T12:04:22-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Remembering a friend who lived his life despite his circumstances<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[The Benefits of Having HIV]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/the-benefits-of-havi"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/the-benefits-of-havi</id>
    <updated>2013-09-24T18:15:00-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[The benefit of having HIV/AIDS and the system that creates it<br><img src="https://cdn3.poz.com/41907_New-York-dt-11701032.jpg_5489e08f-b336-4653-a98b-0b40949331a4.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Loving Self]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/loving-self"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/loving-self</id>
    <updated>2013-08-29T16:51:04-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Ways to move beyond self-hate to loving one self<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Deconstructing My HIV]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/deconstructing-my-hi"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/deconstructing-my-hi</id>
    <updated>2013-07-30T09:18:29-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Even after these years finding meaning living with HIV<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Basement/Penthouse]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/basementpenthouse"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/basementpenthouse</id>
    <updated>2013-07-12T15:44:11-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[When looking at life as a HIV positive person I ask myself where my state of mind resides<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Condom Conversation]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/condom-conversation"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/condom-conversation</id>
    <updated>2013-07-05T14:18:43-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[How do you introduce using a condom in a long term relationship?<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Prescription Against Stigma]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/prescription-against"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/prescription-against</id>
    <updated>2013-06-20T12:36:54-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Finding HIV resource and support in my local pharmacy<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Black Shame and HIV]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/black-shame-and-hiv"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/black-shame-and-hiv</id>
    <updated>2013-06-05T13:54:41-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Looking at how shame has affected black men living with HIV<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Disclosing After Sex]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/disclosing-after-sex"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/disclosing-after-sex</id>
    <updated>2013-05-17T12:54:26-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[My experience in disclosing my status after having sex<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Blogging Your HIV]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/blogging-your-hiv"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/blogging-your-hiv</id>
    <updated>2013-04-26T13:36:51-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Tips on blogging your HIV journey<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Emergency Room Visit]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/emergency-room-visit"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/emergency-room-visit</id>
    <updated>2013-04-16T14:27:38-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[A wake-up call to the inequality to health care<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Spring Cleaning]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/spring-cleaning"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/spring-cleaning</id>
    <updated>2013-03-26T16:09:29-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[It's time for some spring cleaning with my HIV health<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Building Walls]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/building-walls"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/building-walls</id>
    <updated>2013-03-13T14:26:25-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[The loss of a friend and the effects on your support system<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Viral Stigma]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/viral-stigma"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/viral-stigma</id>
    <updated>2013-03-06T16:48:30-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[A mea culpa as I realize my part in helping stigma go viral.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Closer to HIV]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/closer-to-hiv"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/closer-to-hiv</id>
    <updated>2013-02-21T15:06:22-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[An alternative way of looking at HIV prevention<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Out of the Darkness]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/out-of-the-darkness"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/out-of-the-darkness</id>
    <updated>2013-02-06T15:16:14-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Observing National Black HIV/AIDS Awareness Day, how can we step into knowing our HIV status<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Junior]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/junior"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/junior</id>
    <updated>2013-01-28T14:45:00-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[With the passing of my nephew I embrace the love he showed his uncle living with HIV<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[The New Doctor]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/the-new-doctor"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/the-new-doctor</id>
    <updated>2013-01-10T16:09:29-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[My adventures in finding a new doctor<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[More Than HIV]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/more-than-hiv"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/more-than-hiv</id>
    <updated>2013-01-03T15:10:48-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Dealing with a friend's guilt of being negative<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Me and HPV]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/me-and-hpv"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/me-and-hpv</id>
    <updated>2012-12-12T15:40:14-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[HPV is rarely talked about yet many of us have it as I learned<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[William Brandon Lacy Campos]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/william-brandon-lacy"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/william-brandon-lacy</id>
    <updated>2012-11-13T14:26:58-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Brandon Campos a true HIV warrior and activist left us to soon as I reflect on his life and friendship<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Sandy is Still Here]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/sandy-is-still-here"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/sandy-is-still-here</id>
    <updated>2012-11-07T14:39:32-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Although Hurricane Sandy is gone, it's effect still remain for those HIV positive<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Turning Positive]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/turning-positive"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/turning-positive</id>
    <updated>2012-10-18T16:11:11-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[The events that lead up to me being infected with HIV.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[How to Date Me]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/how-to-date-me"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/how-to-date-me</id>
    <updated>2012-10-11T10:33:30-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[My tips on how to date me, someone with HIV.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Looking Beyond HIV]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/looking-beyond-hiv"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/looking-beyond-hiv</id>
    <updated>2012-10-03T17:05:04-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Approaching HIV in a different way with young gay black men<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[You Got A Friend]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/you-got-a-friend"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/you-got-a-friend</id>
    <updated>2012-09-12T16:17:03-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[How opening up to a friend made me feel less alone<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[This is a Test]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/this-is-a-test"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/this-is-a-test</id>
    <updated>2012-08-29T15:26:05-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Learning that low testosterone is common with HIV<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Positive Plus Positive]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/positive-plus-positi"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/positive-plus-positi</id>
    <updated>2012-08-06T16:27:15-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[A look at the question if two HIV positive people should or shouldn't practice safe sex<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[5 Things I've Learned About Having HIV]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/5-things-ive-learned"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/5-things-ive-learned</id>
    <updated>2012-07-18T12:27:23-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Lessons I have learned about my HIV<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[A Bitter Pill]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/a-bitter-pill"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/a-bitter-pill</id>
    <updated>2012-06-27T14:47:00-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[After years without, my first experience with taking HIV medication<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/86900_pills-pill-box-iStock-15291010.jpg_c7176900-9c13-4871-a922-ceb16752035b.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Father's Day]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/fathers-day"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/fathers-day</id>
    <updated>2012-06-13T16:42:01-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[A remembrance of a special father who gave his life while living with HIV.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[This Woman's Work]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/this-womans-work-1"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/this-womans-work-1</id>
    <updated>2012-06-06T12:04:14-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Women infected and affected by HIV, play a large role in the battle<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Jumping the Broom]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/jumping-the-broom"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/jumping-the-broom</id>
    <updated>2012-05-29T16:42:03-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Finally jumping the broom with my recent marriage proposal.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Pomp and Circumstance]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/pomp-and-circumstanc"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/pomp-and-circumstanc</id>
    <updated>2012-05-23T13:21:00-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Not letting my status no longer block my dream.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/110094_400161-Graduation.JPG_1b543ebb-e248-4918-b5a8-a59e92d897db.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Exit Stage Left]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/exit-stage-left"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/exit-stage-left</id>
    <updated>2012-05-08T17:09:36-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[An observance of Mental Illness Awareness Week<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Cutting Out HIV]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/cutting-out-hiv"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/cutting-out-hiv</id>
    <updated>2012-04-27T16:08:17-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[An innovative look at unity in fighting HIV.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Mark]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/mark"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/mark</id>
    <updated>2012-04-19T12:32:18-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[A friend living with HIV who taught me how to live.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Remembering Rustin]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/remembering-rustin"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/remembering-rustin</id>
    <updated>2012-04-10T11:39:18-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Recognition of Bayard Rustin and a reminder of the need to fight for civil rights for all.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[I'm Back!!]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/im-back"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/im-back</id>
    <updated>2012-04-03T15:28:41-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[As the season changes it's time for Spring cleaning and removing the negatives from my life.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Self Disclosure]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/self-disclosure"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/self-disclosure</id>
    <updated>2012-03-08T16:16:14-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[My last article on disclosure and coming to a place of disclosing my HIV status to myself<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Disclosure to Family and Friends]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/dislosure-to-family"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/dislosure-to-family</id>
    <updated>2012-02-29T12:12:02-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Sometimes HIV can disconnect us from family as we may have difficulty in disclosing our battle with the disease.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Disclosure and Dating]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/disclosure-and-datin"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/disclosure-and-datin</id>
    <updated>2012-02-21T15:07:00-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[The second in a four part series of disclosure as I look at the intersection of HIV disclosure and relationships.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Disclosure- Part One/Workplace]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/disclosure--part-one"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/disclosure--part-one</id>
    <updated>2012-02-14T15:36:13-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[A four part series of HIV disclosure as I take the opportunity to share my struggles with disclosure in the workplace.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[HIV and the Black Community]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/hiv-and-the-black-co"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/hiv-and-the-black-co</id>
    <updated>2012-02-07T14:11:14-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[When it comes to National Black HIV/AIDS Awareness Day we're all affected.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[You're Fired]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/youre-fired"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/youre-fired</id>
    <updated>2012-01-31T17:16:00-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Sometimes you experience the unknown when dealing with referred specialists. Some are good, some you have to tell them it's not going to work.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Brother Can You Spare A Roof]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/brother-can-you-spar"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/brother-can-you-spar</id>
    <updated>2012-01-10T15:19:47-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[My life of being homeless for two years and living with HIV.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[New Year Resolutions]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/new-year-resolutions"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/new-year-resolutions</id>
    <updated>2012-01-04T14:51:52-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[As a New Year begins I've come up with 12 resolutions that will carry me in 2012 and beyond.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[I'm Here for the New Year]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/im-here-for-the-new"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/im-here-for-the-new</id>
    <updated>2011-12-29T15:35:18-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[For me the New Year was my marker on how much time I had on this earth and was I going to be here to welcome in another new year?<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Coal For Christmas]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/coal-for-christmas"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/coal-for-christmas</id>
    <updated>2011-12-22T14:26:45-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[The rates for HIV men and women of color are rising and yet funding in NYC has been cut affecting many HIV agencies.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Where the F*#@K Am I At?]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/where-the-fk-am-i-at"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/where-the-fk-am-i-at</id>
    <updated>2011-12-13T13:01:05-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[My adventure in online dating and what I learned from it.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Zero Tolerence]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/zero-tolerence"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/zero-tolerence</id>
    <updated>2011-12-07T17:02:38-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[A new initiative is looking at how we reach zero tolerance when it comes to HIV. One that needs to be revisited is reaching zero tolerance whe...<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Wearing the Red Ribbon]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/wearing-the-red-ribb"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/wearing-the-red-ribb</id>
    <updated>2011-11-30T12:37:00-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[As World AIDS Day approaches we have to recognize the effects of stigma and what we can do to make a dent in the ignorance of it.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Being Thankful]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/being-thankful"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/being-thankful</id>
    <updated>2011-11-22T11:34:46-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[As Thanksgiving arrives it gives me time to thank those who have helped me on through this journey we call life.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Giving Back To HIV]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/giving-back-to-hiv"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/giving-back-to-hiv</id>
    <updated>2011-11-09T00:00:00-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Give back to HIV by volunteering this Thanksgiving.<br><img src="https://cdn3.poz.com/22150_group-table-TS-523355623.jpg_4137acb7-dbdc-434a-b097-1c5d619ea109.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[On Bended Knee]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/on-bended-knee"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/on-bended-knee</id>
    <updated>2011-11-01T10:32:37-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[HIV is never just about the disease but the side effects that can affect your way of life.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Interview with a Doctor]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/interview-with-a-doc"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/interview-with-a-doc</id>
    <updated>2011-10-20T14:10:02-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[I think one of the most important parts of your health care is choosing a doctor that you feel comfortable with as this person will be someone...<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[The 'forgotten' Community]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/the-forgotten-commun"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/the-forgotten-commun</id>
    <updated>2011-10-11T15:22:00-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[As we combat HIV, we often forget about targeting straight men of color or the 'forgotten' community.<br><img src="https://cdn.poz.com/107620_33011-keepitreal.jpg_44e427b4-ecc3-49f0-b82a-1dd0f940a3b6.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[The Pity Party is Over]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/the-pity-party-is-ov"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/the-pity-party-is-ov</id>
    <updated>2011-09-27T15:39:31-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[So now you know that you got HIV, the 'bug' or maybe you've called it the Monster in your circle. Whatever you call it, you have it so now wha...<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Dancing to Hate]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/rapping-about-nothin"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/rapping-about-nothin</id>
    <updated>2011-09-15T14:59:31-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[How do we address rappers who spread their homophobic beliefs through their beats?<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Death Before Dying]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/death-before-dying"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/death-before-dying</id>
    <updated>2011-09-07T12:31:00-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[From September the 4th to the 10th of 2011 around the country, it's National Suicide Prevention Week.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/35964_depression-is-000006663269.jpg_1a07ba8d-f14d-44bf-b41e-5177d57ee0e9.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[When Did We Move Away]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/when-did-we-move-awa"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/when-did-we-move-awa</id>
    <updated>2011-08-29T14:49:01-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[With the rise in black on black crime, I wrote a poem that I hopes ask more than what's going on but rather, "why is it going on"<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Time For a Tune-up]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/time-for-a-tune-up"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/time-for-a-tune-up</id>
    <updated>2011-08-17T15:37:38-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[If we can give our car a tune-up when it comes to our mental health, why can't we do the same for ourselves?<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Changing of the Guard]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/changing-of-the-guar"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/changing-of-the-guar</id>
    <updated>2011-08-09T15:33:16-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[One of the aspects that is never addressed is what do you do when your doctor leaves?<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Running To Sobriety]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/running-to-sobriety"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/running-to-sobriety</id>
    <updated>2011-08-02T13:49:38-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Addiction to drugs is made more difficult when you mix in HIV, yet one man chose to run to his demons instead of running away from them.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[When I Discovered I Was Black]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/when-i-discovered-i"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/when-i-discovered-i</id>
    <updated>2011-07-28T16:06:43-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[My personal experience with racism and its connection to HIV<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Brother to Brother]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/brother-to-brother"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/brother-to-brother</id>
    <updated>2011-07-19T15:49:15-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[A simple story of two brothers having nothing in common yet having much in common.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[There's an app for that]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/theres-an-app-for-th"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/theres-an-app-for-th</id>
    <updated>2011-07-12T14:47:35-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[With the new way smartphone technology connects men, how can current HIV outreach adapt<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[How Do You Say Goodbye]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/how-do-you-say-goodb"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/how-do-you-say-goodb</id>
    <updated>2011-07-04T12:11:58-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[With the sudden death of a friend living with HIV, I've received a reality check that tomorrow is not always promised.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[24]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/24"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/24</id>
    <updated>2011-06-28T14:45:40-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Living with the virus for 24 years by saying it out loud makes me free!<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Finding Our Pride]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/finding-our-pride"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/finding-our-pride</id>
    <updated>2011-06-24T11:37:46-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[As we celebrate Pride or question why we celebrate it, we have to look at the many reasons Gay Pride is so relevant.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Words Kill]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/words-kill"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/words-kill</id>
    <updated>2011-06-14T13:47:38-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Plenty has been said about Tracy Morgan's recent homophobic rant and more should be said as he gave a reason why homophobia still exists espec...<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[When Will the Church Get It!]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/when-will-the-church"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/when-will-the-church</id>
    <updated>2011-06-10T15:29:08-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA["If children start to believe that it's okay to be gay then they will think it will okay to be a pedophile or have sex with animals."
This is...<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Man's Best Friend]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/mans-best-friend"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/mans-best-friend</id>
    <updated>2011-06-01T14:26:00-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Pets and HIV. They go together so well and in my case have made my status more manageable and showed me what love is.<br><img src="https://cdn3.poz.com/90906_32815-parkerhope.jpg_f82684d8-fc48-42a0-88d2-65f4e4db56e4.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Does it Really Get Better]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/does-it-really-get-b"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/does-it-really-get-b</id>
    <updated>2011-05-24T15:46:09-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[It Get 's Better is a viral video campaign that's popular now, but looking underneath the covers, does it really get better?<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[The Cost of Having HIV]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/the-cost-of-having-h"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/the-cost-of-having-h</id>
    <updated>2011-05-18T13:04:23-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[I recently had a conversation with a young man who was recently diagnosed as having HIV. To my surprise he was nonchalant about it. In fact wh...<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Keep it on the Downlow]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/keep-it-on-the-downl"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/keep-it-on-the-downl</id>
    <updated>2011-04-29T13:44:08-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[When people think of 'downlow' I bet you the first visually image of the word is one of an African-American male. He's probably more urban loo...<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Got some xplainig to do!]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/got-some-xplainig-to"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/got-some-xplainig-to</id>
    <updated>2011-04-18T16:50:39-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[My goal in writing my blog was to let people know that they're not alone in their individual fight with HIV, yet I realize that with my rawnes...<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Letting Go of Family]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/letting-go-of-family"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/letting-go-of-family</id>
    <updated>2011-04-12T14:24:42-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Some years back I had to make a difficult decision. It was a choice to continue to endure the neglect of family especially around my sexual id...<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Hurt People, Hurt People]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/hurt-people-hurt-peo"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/hurt-people-hurt-peo</id>
    <updated>2011-04-07T15:08:24-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Focusing on homophobia I have to say that I have had my share of it. Yet the one thing I'm ashamed of while growing up is that I use to be par...<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Stigma]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/stigma-6"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/stigma-6</id>
    <updated>2011-03-30T14:05:10-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Stigma is a bridge that leads to discrimination. It's a fear of the unknown that devalues those who are infected. For me it was a learning les...<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Oreo]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/oreo-1"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/oreo-1</id>
    <updated>2011-03-25T15:29:28-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Initially when meeting Joel there were two concerns. The first was that he was negative and I was HIV positive and the second was that he was...<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Managing Meds While on Vacation]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/managing-meds-while"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/managing-meds-while</id>
    <updated>2011-03-18T16:49:44-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Vacations are nice but what do you do when you have no break from your HIV medication<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Pink Elephants]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/pink-elephants"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/pink-elephants</id>
    <updated>2011-03-15T15:19:01-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Dating as an HIV-positive man can sometimes be a comedy of errors as I found out.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Aging and HIV]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/aging-and-hiv"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/aging-and-hiv</id>
    <updated>2011-03-10T12:19:07-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Everyone ages yet for those living with HIV there are still unknown questions on what effect the disease will have on you during your senior y...<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Eat, Drink, Punch]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/eat-drink-punch"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/eat-drink-punch</id>
    <updated>2011-03-05T14:54:21-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Love isn't supposed to hurt, yet for me desperate to be in a relationship, I found out that it did.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[The Number Game]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/the-number-game"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/the-number-game</id>
    <updated>2011-02-28T15:45:13-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[It seems that the first day I was diagnosed my life suddenly became consumed with numbers. It was like an introduction of numbers that equatio...<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[The Words of HIV]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/the-words-of-hiv"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/the-words-of-hiv</id>
    <updated>2011-02-22T16:39:04-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[I want to share a short story of the power of words and tie it into HIV.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[The two most powerful people you will meet]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/the-two-most-powerfu"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/the-two-most-powerfu</id>
    <updated>2011-02-16T14:28:35-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Stigma is mentioned a lot and it can happen in medical spaces, in fact it happens a lot without the staff aware they're doing it.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Gray Ceilings]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/gray-ceilings"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/gray-ceilings</id>
    <updated>2011-02-11T12:59:47-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[How I learned the power of forgiveness from a horrible experience in my life.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Today is National Black HIV/AIDS Awareness Day]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/today-is-national-bl"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/today-is-national-bl</id>
    <updated>2011-02-07T13:37:18-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Today is National Black HIV/AIDS Awareness Day. It's a day to bring continued attention to the disease that is rising dramatically in black co...<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Disclosure]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/disclosure"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/disclosure</id>
    <updated>2011-02-04T14:31:42-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[I think one of the most difficult thing to do for someone who's HIV positive is when to disclose your status, especially when you meet someone...<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[David Kato -- Murder in Uganda!]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/david-kato-murder-in"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/david-kato-murder-in</id>
    <updated>2011-02-01T14:18:00-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[David Kato, a name some may not recognize, was recently murdered in Uganda based on his sexuality.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[I Want Your Sex]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/i-want-your-sex"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/i-want-your-sex</id>
    <updated>2011-01-28T11:09:08-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Sexual addiction is something that is not fully recognized as an illness and often goes untreated leading into many forms of self-destruction.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Holiday!]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/holiday"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/holiday</id>
    <updated>2011-01-25T15:39:31-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Holidays are something to look forward to but I learned that when it comes to HIV, holidays are something you shouldn't enjoy.<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Fighting the Blues]]></title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.poz.com/blog/fighting-the-blues"></link>
    <id>https://www.poz.com/blog/fighting-the-blues</id>
    <updated>2011-01-20T16:22:36-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name><![CDATA[Aundaray Guess]]></name>
    </author>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Riding the subway I'm looking at the empty subway seat across from me and it says, "Please give seat to people with disabilities." The word th...<br><img src="https://cdn1.poz.com/9_poz-logo-1000x1000.jpg_580250ea-51ca-49ec-a03a-a71ac8406716.jpeg" />]]></content>
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